The Present and The Past

She shared with me about her present and the problems because of her present. Why is people so judgemental? Jumping into conclusions and getting into assumptions so easily? Just because so-and-so said so? Just because you saw so-and-so? We always judge just by looking at one side of the coin and jump straight into conclusions. But what about the other side of the things? She is being judged based on her present.

She, on the other hand, is being judged based on a Past. Since it's a Past, why do people still judge another based on that? Isn't it unfair? Didn't one learn "never to judge a book by its cover"? Why do people like giving this additional baggage on others? I guess that's human nature. We are always judging and evaluating. It helps us to make decisions in life so it's impossible for us not to Judge at all. I believe instead of jumping the wagon, it's always to judge only when one really know the full circumstances in question and to always keep an open mind and a heart that is not doubtful.

So the two Shes, I supposed that's part and parcel of life so no way lah.....