Feel sad reading my fren blog (who is having some mixed feelings), but I hope he would not give up on life and himself. I do not know what I can do to cheer him up.
But I like to share this story with him:
Actually this story is about a neighbour (when I still stayed in Bedok), who is also handicapped since birth; in a condition similar to my fren. Of course when I knew him as a neighbour I was a kid and he was much older than me. We never talked before but he would always greet my grandma and they would exchange some casual remarks.
I guess it never occurred to me then as a kid that this uncle is going to ever settled down and have a family. But he did, he got married to a beautiful wife and he has 3 healthy kids. :)
I always feel your life will turn out to be what you feel it will be. If you feel that it is going to be gloomy, hopeless...I guess it definitely won't get any better. But if you feel it is going to be brighter, going to be better ... it will be. :)
For love, we can't order. If she is meant to be, she will be yours ... maybe you just have not met that special someone. I just hope if my fren read this, it would bring a smile on his face. :)
1 comment:
Agreed with Twinny. Hope Twinny's friend cheer up too. I volunteer with handicapped organisations. It's not drama, there are actually quite a number of cases of marriage between handicapped and girls etc. In fact the guys got a better chance then the girl.
One place to start with, it's actually with the organisation itself as there will be a greater chance to meet others of same condition or pple who work or are friends,who will be more receptive and understanding. But it might not be necessary or the case lah.
I would like to emphasize that many pple volunteer with all sorts of reasons and with a hidden Agenda. After volunteering for more than 5 yrs, I can tell you frankly, volunteer is not equal to angel and kindess. Dun link them together. They are two different entities.
And i heard too many handicapped guys also thinking other girls not pretty enough for them or too childish for them so it's a two way thing. Sometimes be more realistic and get to know the girl first and not jump to conclusion that she is not good enough or not cute enough. =P
You never know when cupid will strike and shoot that arrow right into the hearts! ;-P
Cheers!!
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